Saturday, June 16, 2007
I spy with my little eye something that starts with "S"
This week and next the grandparents are staying with us. AM is in Prague for work and didn't want to leave me alone with all three kids for two solid weeks. It's great because the grandma is a great cook and they love to take care of the kids. This means I eat well, and finally after being here since February, I am able to go do things with friends in the evenings. Yeah, I could a bit before too, but I couldn't plan anything because I didn't know if I would be needed to get them ready for bed, take showers, etc.
Last weekend and this week were pretty non eventful. I went for runs and hung out with the little ones. Tuesday evening I went to a conversation exchange and hope to keep doing that every week because I really like the people and it's close to my house.
Today I went to the forest with some people that I met through the meet up group. We had a picnic and climbed boulders and played frisbee all afternoon. It was so wonderful to get out of the city again. It took about an hour to get there and it rained a bit, but I didn't care. I wish we would have stayed the night, but alas, there are things to do and places to be. Tomorrow (Sunday) I don't have too much planned. My back is feeling better after tweeking it last week, so I might go for a little run. Cleaning the house and meeting my friend from Germany for a crepe is also on the list. Not too eventful. I went out for drinks the last two nights, so I think a night/day to chill is a good idea.
Next weekend I'm going to Italy again. I'll be staying with the neighbors that used to be here in Paris. Now they are living in a converted barn on an organic farm outside of Bologna. They've written me about it and it sounds wonderful! They are not the reason I'm going, but I'll write more about that after I get back. Soon the kids will be finished with school and I have yet to make solid plans about August. I would like to stay and work and practice my French. I still have a place to stay at the new apartment, I just have to work out the details. I'm sure something will turn up, it always does....
Wednesday, June 6, 2007
de temps en temps
So, AM and Chloe went to the doctor this afternoon, which meant that I had the two boys all to myself. It wasn't so bad and I enjoyed hanging out with them, though sometimes when the two of them are together they love to hit and fight and jump on each other until either one of them cries or I have had enough and give them timeouts and/or both. I don't mind if they roughhouse, but they always start doing it when I want them to clean their room or get dressed. Well, today it was the timeout. In the past, I put Elliot in his mom's room and Pablo downstairs on the bed. Today was going to be the same thing, but it turned out better than I could have hoped. Elliot did what I asked before it got to the timeout because he said he didn't want one and Pablo sat quietly for 5 minutes and also did what I asked after the timeout instead of crying and being angry like he had been in the past. I couldn't believe it. It was only a little victory, but it felt really good. Later on in the afternoon I could tell they needed to run around outside for a bit, so I sent them out with waterguns. A bit of a bold move I know, but I figured it was warm out, they didn't have anything else going on this afternoon, and hell, they needed to take a shower tonight anyway. The guns kept them occupied for a while until they needed to refill. Long story short, the hose was discovered. I was being attacked. Since they were mostly drenched anyway, I decided to finish the job. The kids thought it was the greatest thing ever until Anne-Marie came home. She wasn't happy because appearanly we're not supposed to use the hose. I was dry (mostly), but the kids were drenched. As soon as they saw that she wasn't happy, they both started crying trying to make it look like I made them cry. I couldn't believe it! Such little punks! They can blame me for it, I'm not sorry, I thought it was pretty funny. Anyway, I had a good time and I know they did too.
I finally feel more confident in my role here. It only took 4 months! I am feeling more relaxed these days partly because I am more confident in what I can and can't do and partly because I don't invest myself in the outcomes as much. What I mean is, I realize that yes, I am living with the family which means I have to dicipline more than the average babysitter, but I also don't put all my energy and emotions into having things go my way. I am also feeling a bit better about picking up more babysitting hours. I started babysitting for an Australian family a couple times a week. She has 4 kids: 18months, 4, 5, and 7 years old. I only sit for her for a couple hours and usually only have the two youngest to look after. It's a nice change of pace and it's nice to get a few extra euros too! We'll see how long this somewhat more relaxed feeling lasts though!
Yesterday I taught the kids how to make duct tape wallets. Tonight we did friendship bracelates. Pretty soon I'm going to run out of arts and crafts. Nah, probably not, I love doing that kind of stuff and I'm sure we'll find some new stuff to play with. Next project is making communicating devices with tin cans and string. I rescued the olive can from the trash today and now I just have to find another one.
Oh, I forgot to write about the school fete and Mother's day. The fete (party) was last Saturday and Mother's Day was Sunday. The fete was great because I got to see the kids sing and dance. Oh, they were so cute. I have to say that getting to do family things like these and things like getting to be the tooth fairy just make this gig totally worth it. I really enjoyed hanging out with them for Mother's day too and going to the science museum. Despite Elliot's behavior issues and Chloe's constant need to have everything perfect, I think things are progressing well. Pablo specifically I think is acting older than when I first met him and they can all be really sweet sometimes. It warms my little heart. Alright, enough rambling. On to the next adventure...
Thursday, May 31, 2007
In the Merde
Saturday, May 12, 2007
Manifestation
The next night I went to Bastille (the monument that used to be a prison and is the symbol of French Independance) to see what was going on. There were a lot of people protesting (manifestations in French). I couldn't believe how many cops were in riot gear as well. They kept forming lines and breaking the crowd up. Those who didn't move got put in the paddy wagon. I actually felt like I was back in the states for a bit. Below are some pictures I took of it. They were with my cell phone though, so they're not very clear...



Thursday, May 3, 2007
Energetique
There are few things that I regret. One of them, however, is teaching them a little poem after burping. It was cute the first couple times; now that they burp on purpose just to say the poem, it's not as cute. And, I suppose I can't write this without writing the poem, so read on mon amis, it's at the bottom, below the pictures. I can't believe what I remember from childhood. There are songs, poems, games, and arts and crafts that I haven't even thought of since I was 6! I guess my memory isn't as bad as I thought it was. Well long term memory anyway, my short term one is well occupied with French vocabulary at the moment and we will see in a couple months how well that is working...
Here's some picts from this week:
Poem:
Excuse me that was very rude, it was not me, it was my food. It got so lonely down below, it just came up to say "Hello".
Monday, April 30, 2007
See Blog Title
Last week was a bit rough. My feelings of relaxation from the holiday disappeared very quickly. I was stressed out about which language classes I was going to continue with, I was stressed out about my money situation and I was getting a bit homesick also. In addition to that, I had to take care of the kids and I felt like something was off between Anne-Marie and I. I know that she is very busy and sometimes I think I take things too personally/seriously. I just had an overall feeling of, I guess the best way to put it is discontentment. It's not exactly it, but I just can't put my finger on it. I kept asking myself why I am here and can I really keep doing this...blah blah blah. Then Saturday came and the kids were with their dad. My foot was feeling better, so I went for a run in the park. Then Saturday night I helped AM clean the house then we had a nice dinner of pasta with pesto (what I brought back from Italy) and wine. Running is always good for clearing the head and it was nice to spend time with just Anne-Marie without the kids around. I also went out with some friends from class Saturday night. All in all, it was a good mental health weekend. Today is Monday again, and I've gotten my class situation handled and have decided not to worry about money and just go with the experience (though we'll see how long that lasts). I've worked it out with Anne-Marie to stay on for the next school year also. So, I will be working until the end of June then have July and August off and start work again (in the new house) next September. This means I will be coming back to the states in August for Kyle's (my stepbrother) wedding, but probably won't be back in Portland until Christmas time to visit (maybe). That also means that gives you all more time to come visit me, so get on it! Despite all this, the kids and I do have some pretty fun times. Below are some more pictures of the kids that I took the day we all came back from vacation...
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
Adventures in Italy
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The actual traveling part of my trip turned out to be very frustrating on all accounts. Some advice: make sure you do a cost/benefit analysis on buying the cheapest possible airline flights before purchasing. Yes, I got a flight for 18 euros to
Apart from the minor frustrations, the trip itself was absolutely wonderful. I got into
Play: it’s always difficult to pick up with a team. There are so many different personalities and levels of play. It is hard to get everyone of the same page and even harder to strike a balance between just having fun, but being competitive enough to win some games. Still, I think our team did a pretty good job of hanging together. For me, I hadn’t really been playing and it was difficult to find a rhythm. I mostly played handler and didn’t really find my game until the second day. Still, even though it was a bit hard to get going (and exhausting running in sand) it was amazing playing in 80 degree weather on the beach next to the sea for 5 days. Our team was called Chili, Soy and MSG and though we were the “Greater China Ultimate Team,” only one person was actually a native from
Oh the parties! There were two big parties one Saturday night and one Sunday and they were both dress up/theme parties. The one was a
Oh the Italian food! I ate so much great pizza, pasta, and gelato, I can’t even go into it. Just having a plain ol’ margharita pizza (mozzarella and sauce) was amazing. My favorite pasta was the tortellini with cream sauce and I tried to taste as many different kinds of tiramisu gelato as possible. In
After playing hard, eating well, drinking a lot of chianti and sangeovese, and getting my fill of ultimate, I eventually took the train from
I left for
The next day was Thursday and during the day I hiked to the top of the Duomo and got a great view of the city and just kind of bumbled about the city to see what I could see. Of course I went to Ponte Vecchio several times, but didn’t buy anything because it is way too expensive there. At night I ended up staying with a guy named Massimo who lived about a half hour north of Firenze in a town called
Speaking of wine, I went into a local wine store with
Like I said earlier, on Friday I wanted to visit
I ended up staying in Cinque Terre for a couple nights. The first night we met up with some of Sergio’s friends, who happened to also be hosting couch surfers. All in all, there were about 15 of us who stuffed ourselves with pasta and ham and potatoes and an amazing desert made of ricotta cheese and chocolate. Of course we had coffee after dinner and some homemade ice cream. Ugh, I couldn’t eat again until dinner the next day I was so full! The second day I spent hiking from Manarola to Corniglia and then bought a bit of cheese and wine and bread and hiked up just past Riomaggori on the bluff to watch the Sunset.
The next day it was time to hit the road again, so I hopped on the back of Sergio’s scooter again (which is absolutely the best way to get around, especially on beautiful, sunny coastal roads) and he took me to the train station. The plan was to go to Genova then catch a train to
So, next it was off to